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Nathalie Fanja's avatar

I am loving this series Vienda 🤩 A pattern I am observing is fixating (ruminating) about my corporate job is draining during my free time. And with this awareness, I’d prefer to shift my attention to something more energizing and nourishing.

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vienda's avatar

hmmm ~ the rumination is a signal but hearing the signal wihtout being able to act on it doesn’t help does it ~ so instead shifting your attention to things you CAN act on would then be energising

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Nathalie Fanja's avatar

Absolutely! I initiated action and want re-activate my business. I am slowly starting to recognize, own, and talk about my gifts ☺️

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Melody Aminian's avatar

Nourish sounds like a good word of the month.

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vienda's avatar

doesn’t it! my focus atm is nourishing myself be telling a new story about my life trajectory. one that embraces the unknown with so much hope and optimism that i can claim it fully.

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Chessy's avatar

Vienda, this is exactly what I needed to hear today.😌💜🙏

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vienda's avatar

I’m so happy to read that, Chessy! Anything in particular that speaks to you?

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Chessy's avatar

So much! The whole process really. I didn’t realize until about a year ago that I had lost my joy and any notion of what brings me joy so your I WANT list is just what I need and I’m starting mine now. I’m hoping that it will not only bring more aliveness to my days but also inform what I want to do as a business. This quote really sang to my soul:

Freedom is claimed not through limitless choices but by being able to choose what is meaningful to me. Beauty is found in the attention I place on the ordinary. My essence is always maturing. It is a conversation with myself across time, a deepening dialogue between who I am becoming

and the life I am willing to inhabit.

Thank you for sharing 🙏

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vienda's avatar

I really appreciate you taking the time, Chessy. It helps me understand what lands with you and what to offer more of. Thank you!

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